Who hasn’t looked down at their desk or bedroom floor and seen a toy, sex toy, or other object that makes them think of pleasurable, sexy moments? Whether it’s a massage tool, a dildo, or even a whip, there are often multiple ways for one person to have an orgasm. But, if you really want to be able to have the orgasmic experience, you have to learn a thing or two about masturbation. Here are some of the things you need to know if you want to masturbate in a way that doesn’t make you look like a dirty old man.
Find Your Edge
Even if you’ve been doing it for years, you might still not know what exactly makes your dick grow hard or your balls tickle. Instead of simply popping a masturbator in your underwear and hoping for the best, you have to find the right position and rhythm for you. Some people like to use a shower wand or a stroking tool in the bathtub. Others like to use their fingers or a sex toy. Decide which one of these you’ll use and experiment with various techniques until you find the rhythm and position that makes you cum the most. Don’t give up and don’t think of this as a chore. Instead, look at it as a necessary part of sexual health that you need to do for yourself.
Get The Right Timing
Just because you found the right position and the right tool doesn’t mean that every time you have sex will result in you cumming. The same way you wouldn’t eat ice cream every day just because you found a flavor you liked, you have to find the right moment and then be consistent about it. There are many reasons why you might not be able to come just yet. For example, if you have a headache or a bad case of the flu, it might make it difficult for you to cum. Or, if you’ve been drinking, it might lower your inhibitions and make it easier for you to come. So, instead of having sex or masturbating when you feel like it, you have to wait for certain triggers to make you act. Don’t just settle for once-off quickies either. Make it a point to masturbate at least once a day, even if it’s just for a few minutes. By doing this, you’re sure to start feeling the difference sooner or later.
Start Small
When you start exploring your body and how it functions, you’ll soon discover that it doesn’t always respond well to extreme measures. In fact, sometimes it takes a little bit of experimenting before you find the right combination of movements and tools for the job. It’s not like getting a perfect pitch by singing a single note. You have to find the right note to sing and, at first, you might have to try out a few different methods before you find the one that works best for you. Just because your friend told you that this position feels good doesn’t mean that it will feel good for you. So, instead of going straight for the jugular and trying to doggy-style your way to a climax, start small and work your way up. When you’re ready, have a look at some of the tools available to make your job easier. There are many different products on the market, so you’re sure to find something that suits your needs.
As you can see, there are many different ways to masturbate. Not only that, but there are also various tools that can make the process easier or more enjoyable. So, instead of simply popping a masturbator in your underwear and hoping for the best, take the time to find the right position and tools for yourself. Then, when you’re ready, have at it. Just make sure that you don’t do anything that you’ll regret later. Besides, clean up after yourself. Use a towel, not your pants to wipe yourself down and ensure that your bedroom or bathroom looks neat and tidy. You certainly don’t want to make your already cluttered house look even more chaotic. So, in order to keep your house clean, you have to keep your bathroom and bedroom clean. This means that you can’t simply use any old towel to wipe yourself down after having sex either. You have to make sure that it’s something special that you’ll only use for this specific purpose. What I mean by this is that you shouldn’t use any old white towels because they’ll just become dirty again quickly anyway. So, when you’re in the process of wiping yourself down after sex, use a wash cloth or a towel that’s specifically designed for this purpose. You should also make sure that your bed is made every night and that your room is cleaned regularly. This way, your bedroom and bathroom will stay as neat and tidy as possible and you’ll have no problems having an orgasm whenever you want. Happy masturbating!