Everyone has a dream girl or guy. For some lucky people, their dream girl/boy becomes real. For others, it’s a fantasy that fades away with age. For a small group of people, the fantasy is a permanent state and they live happily ever after. For the rest of us mere mortals, well, the good news is there’s still a chance to realize our perfect match’s dreams. We just have to follow a few simple steps.
Step 1: Find Out If He Is Interested
The first step is the easiest. All you have to do is ask. In the most direct way possible, ask the person if they are interested in a relationship with you. If they respond in the affirmative, then great! You’ve got your answer and can move on to the next step.
Step 2: Get To Know Him Better
The next step is to simply get to know the person you’ve piqued the interest of. This should be easy, as long as you’ve got a Facebook account you can continue to connect with them there. Once you’ve got their contact info, take the time to learn a little bit about them. What do they like? What are their hobbies? What sorts of things would they like to discuss with you?
Step 3: Arrange A Meeting
After you’ve gotten to know the person a little better, you can arrange a meeting. Unless you’re living in one of the more fashionable regions of the world or they’re a celebrity, it’s safe to assume that you’ll be meeting the person at some point in person. The important thing here is to simply show up. If you’re driving, then take the opportunity to let them know you’re there. If you’re on foot, then so be it. You won’t be able to meet them if you’re hiding. So, show up, and make sure they know you’re there.
Step 4: Establish Some Ground Rules
As you get further into the process, you’ll start to establish some ground rules. This will be similar to what you do with any new relationship. You don’t want to rush it, but you also don’t want to waste your time with someone who isn’t mature enough to handle a healthy, romantic relationship. So, before you do anything else, make sure you’ve got all the ground rules established. What age are you looking for? Are you both willing to be 100% honest? Do you both see the possibility of a long-term relationship? It’s always nice to have these discussions before you dive into anything else.
Step 5: Act Naturally
With any new relationship, you’ll want to act naturally. Whether you’re meeting for the first or fiftieth time, you want to make sure that you’re not putting on an act. If you’re meeting for the first time, then hello! You’ve got a lot to talk about. Feel free to speak with no inhibitions. If you’ve always wanted to be with someone who shares the same interests as you, then this is the person you’ve been searching for your entire life. So, go ahead and be yourself.
Step 6: Don’t Forget About The Little Mermaid
When I set out to write this article, the first thing I did was search for images of mermaids. Little did I know that the search engine would return a life-sized image of Robert Pattinson as the hero of Peter Pan. It’s a bit corny, but it’s true. So, if you really want to make a woman swoon, then take inspiration from the most perfect man in the entire world and become him. Just be sure to never put on an act and always be yourself.
Romance can be an overwhelming feeling, especially when you’ve waited so long to experience it. For some, it might be the culmination of a lifelong search for their perfect match. For others, it could be a fantasy that they’ve only ever dreamed about. For the rest of us, it’s a chance to live out our wildest dreams and fall in love with the person of our choice. Just follow these six steps and you’ll be able to land yourself a sweet, committed partner who shares the same interests as you.