People always ask me if I’m single now that I’m married to James. I think it’s a fair question. Is he single? Has he ever been married? Has he ever had children?

I don’t think it’s a question that people ask because they’re surprised that I married someone I’d known for such a short time. Or because they think that being married to James will make me seem less attractive to the opposite sex. Or because they don’t believe that married couples can remain happy and committed to each other for the rest of their lives. It’s questions like these that make me sad. Just because someone is married or has children doesn’t mean that they’re any less attractive or that their story is any less inspiring than anyone else’s.

I’ve known James for more than 14 years. We went to school together and then started working in the same city. Despite working in different departments, we still got to know a lot of the same people. When I moved to Australia, James moved with me. We lived together in a tiny flat in the city for a while, and then decided to build our lives in a bigger house in the country. We spent the next few years traveling around the country and finally ended up settling in the north of Queensland, where we built a house with an outdoor pool and a vineyard. It was during one of our many trips to the city that James proposed.

Many of our friends think that James is the most amazing man that they’ve ever met. They often ask me how it’s possible that I could marry someone so amazing, who seems to have it all together. I always feel like I have to qualify my response. Yes, James is a really good person. Yes, he’s very kind. Yes, he cares about people a lot. And, most importantly, yes, he loves me.

But you know what? I think that most importantly, I love him. I really do. And that’s all that matters. It never really worried me that people thought James was perfect. I always knew that he had his flaws, just like the rest of us. I think that’s what makes us so much alike. We don’t let our flaws define us, and I think that’s what makes us so strong. Our love for each other means that we’ll always be able to work through our differences.

I don’t want to ruin anyone’s illusion of perfection. I don’t want anyone to think that I would’ve chosen James if he didn’t have these perfect qualities that everyone thinks he has. Because let’s be honest, he doesn’t have all those qualities. He’s not perfect. Nobody is. We all make mistakes, say things we regret, or hurt someone without meaning to. We’re all imperfect creatures who love each other. And that’s all that matters.

Why Did You Take So Long To Respond To James’ Proposal?

I didn’t need a long time to think about it. In fact, it was one of the fastest decisions that I’ve ever made. I’m not sure if it was because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings or if I just didn’t want the pressure of making a mature decision, but I knew after I said yes, that I would’ve never asked for anything else. I mean, I love traveling, and I love being with James, but the thought of spending the rest of my life in the city doesn’t appeal to me. I’d much rather sit by the pool with my husband than go on another business trip. So even though I still have so much to learn about being married, I think that already I know what I want for the rest of my life. And that’s all that matters.

Will You And James Visit The Bahamas On Your Honeymoon?

Unfortunately, no. That’s one of the things that made the decision easier to say no. We talked for a long time about whether or not we should even get married. It wasn’t something that we’d planned, but once we decided, it was impossible to not do it. Even though James’ family is from the Bahamas, I don’t think that they’ll ever forgive us for making their beautiful island our own little secret. They’d never understand, and I don’t want to hurt them by telling them what we’ve done. So, no, we won’t be going to the Bahamas for our honeymoon. But that’s okay. We can visit another country. It might be nice to explore somewhere new. I’m sure that our guests will enjoy themselves as much as we will.

What Will You Do For Your Wedding?

We’re not exactly sure yet. I’m sure that we’ll think of something, but we haven’t decided on everything. We haven’t even started planning the wedding yet. Not to toot our own horn, but James and I are pretty good at coming up with ideas. We’ll have to make a list of all the things that we want to do, and then we’ll see what fits best with our limited time off work. We want the wedding to be a memorable event, and I have a feeling that this event will be pretty unforgettable. As for the celebration itself, we’re going to keep it pretty traditional. We’re going to have the reception dinner, followed by the dancing.

I think that’s all the important information that you need to know about our engagement and wedding. I hope that this article has helped you to have an idea of what to expect. We’d love to hear your thoughts about our wedding. Is there anything else that you’d like to know?