Have you ever been in a relationship with an ex that just wasn’t meant to be? Maybe they hurt you in some way and you want to show them that you’re still loyal. Maybe they cheated on you and you want to tell them that you’re not going to let that happen to you again. Maybe you just want to prove that you’re still in love with them.
Whatever the reason, after you’re separated, it’s important to find a way to keep the good feelings you have for your ex and maintain a relationship with them. For many of us, this can be difficult. Let’s look at some of the ways in which you can keep your relationship with an ex:
Maintain Friendships With Your Ex’s Current And Past Friends
One important thing to do if you want to keep your relationship with an ex is to maintain friendships with their current and past friends. During your relationship, you were friends with these people, and you want to continue being friends with them even after you separate. Maybe you even want to become closer than ever before. This is a great way to do that.
You don’t have to be best friends with them or do favors for them, but you should try to stay in touch with them as much as possible. If they hurt you during your relationship and you want to show them that you’re still loyal, then maintaining friendships with them is a great way to do that. It also shows them that you’re willing to maintain a relationship with them even though you’ve ended the one you had with them. They will feel appreciated and valued as friends.
Maintain Phone And Email Contact
Another important thing to do if you want to keep a relationship with an ex is to maintain contact with them via phone and email. This is especially important if you are going to be in a long-distance relationship with them. You should communicate with them as often as possible via phone and email. If you see them often enough, you will start to feel like you’re back together again, even though you’re not physically together. This is sometimes called “cheating” on your partner with someone else, but it’s really just being loyal to your ex.
The key here is to not rush it. You should take the time to see how things are going and whether or not you want to continue maintaining contact with your ex. Don’t just jump into it and say “Hi! How are you?” You will appear too eager and could scare them off. Take it easy and be yourself. If you want to continue to stay in touch with them, then let them know via email or phone call, but don’t make it a habit to constantly contact them. It will appear too eager.
Take Care Of Your Mental Health
Another important thing to do if you want to keep a relationship with an ex is to take care of your mental health. If you’re not taking care of yourself correctly, then this can make it more difficult to maintain healthy interpersonal relationships. If your mental health is suffering because you’re not getting the relationship you want with your ex, then you need to seek professional help. There are many different issues that you could be experiencing, and you need to find the root of the problem if you want to fix it.
Get To Know Your Own Body
Another important thing to do if you want to keep a relationship with an ex is to get to know your own body. During your relationship, you were inside the body of another person, and now that you’ve separated, you’re no longer in that body. Your body is a wonderful thing that you have that your ex didn’t share. You should be appreciative of it and take care of it. If you want to maintain healthy and loving relationships with an ex, then you need to make sure that your body is healthy and safe.
Know When To Let Go
Finally, you need to know when to let go. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in what we’re feeling that we don’t see things clearly. If you’re determined to continue maintaining a relationship with your ex, then it may be difficult to see what you’re actually losing. If you want to make sure that you’re doing the right thing for you, then you need to take some time to see things objectively. Ask yourself questions and get feedback from others. If you want to be happy and healthy, then be patient and know when it’s time to let go.
You can continue to work through the issues you have with your ex, but taking the time to do so will be more successful if you do it one step at a time. Don’t try to rush it and make things more complicated than they need to be. If you’re already taking care of your mental health and are working through the issues you have with your ex, then you’re ahead of the game. Take care of yourself and be patient. One of the best things you can do for your relationship is take the time to heal a little bit everyday. You’ll be in a better position to maintain healthy and loving relationships in the future.